feat(web): theme import/export, more themable colors, hideable local/ical calendars

Theme:
- Export/import themes via UI as <date>_<time>.theme (JSON, readable keys,
  link to THEME.md). Import is partial-aware: only present params are written
  (server accepts partial); prompts before importing files with unknown params.
- Dynamic favicon + theme-color tinted to the primary colour on load/save.
- New themable colours: general hover-highlight, day hover/selected/bg,
  today background, plus two unified sidebar action-icon colours
  (inactive/active) covering bell, hide, delete and read-only icons.
- All new colours are per-setting syncable; documented in THEME.md.

UX:
- Styled confirm dialog (#modal-confirm) replaces window.confirm() for
  calendar delete and account disconnect.
- Birthday/local calendars and iCal subscriptions can now be hidden from the
  sidebar via Settings (new sidebar_hidden column + hide toggle).

Backend: additive nullable columns + idempotent migrations for user_settings
colours and local_calendars/ical_subscriptions.sidebar_hidden.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

frontend/sw.js

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@
 // the entry HTML / version files). New releases take effect on the next
 // reload, no manual SW unregister required.
 
-const CACHE_VERSION  = 'calendarr-v30';
+const CACHE_VERSION  = 'calendarr-v32';
 const OFFLINE_SHELL  = ['/', '/index.html'];
 
 self.addEventListener('install', event => {