feat(web): theme import/export, more themable colors, hideable local/ical calendars

Theme:
- Export/import themes via UI as <date>_<time>.theme (JSON, readable keys,
  link to THEME.md). Import is partial-aware: only present params are written
  (server accepts partial); prompts before importing files with unknown params.
- Dynamic favicon + theme-color tinted to the primary colour on load/save.
- New themable colours: general hover-highlight, day hover/selected/bg,
  today background, plus two unified sidebar action-icon colours
  (inactive/active) covering bell, hide, delete and read-only icons.
- All new colours are per-setting syncable; documented in THEME.md.

UX:
- Styled confirm dialog (#modal-confirm) replaces window.confirm() for
  calendar delete and account disconnect.
- Birthday/local calendars and iCal subscriptions can now be hidden from the
  sidebar via Settings (new sidebar_hidden column + hide toggle).

Backend: additive nullable columns + idempotent migrations for user_settings
colours and local_calendars/ical_subscriptions.sidebar_hidden.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

backend/routers/settings_router.py

@@ -37,6 +37,13 @@ DEFAULT_SYNC = {
     "cache_months": False,
     "month_view_paged": False,
     "surface_color": False,
+    "hover_highlight_color": True,
+    "icon_inactive_color": True,
+    "icon_active_color": True,
+    "day_hover_color": True,
+    "day_selected_color": True,
+    "day_bg_color": True,
+    "today_bg_color": True,
 }
 
 
@@ -72,6 +79,13 @@ class SettingsUpdate(BaseModel):
     line_color: Optional[str] = None
     bg_color:   Optional[str] = None
     surface_color: Optional[str] = None
+    hover_highlight_color: Optional[str] = None
+    icon_inactive_color: Optional[str] = None
+    icon_active_color: Optional[str] = None
+    day_hover_color: Optional[str] = None
+    day_selected_color: Optional[str] = None
+    day_bg_color: Optional[str] = None
+    today_bg_color: Optional[str] = None
     private_event_visibility: Optional[str] = None
     group_visible_calendar_id: Optional[int] = None
     default_reminder_minutes: Optional[int] = None  # null = off
@@ -100,6 +114,13 @@ def _settings_dict(s: models.UserSettings) -> dict:
         "line_color": s.line_color,
         "bg_color":   s.bg_color,
         "surface_color": s.surface_color,
+        "hover_highlight_color": s.hover_highlight_color,
+        "icon_inactive_color": s.icon_inactive_color,
+        "icon_active_color": s.icon_active_color,
+        "day_hover_color": s.day_hover_color,
+        "day_selected_color": s.day_selected_color,
+        "day_bg_color": s.day_bg_color,
+        "today_bg_color": s.today_bg_color,
         "private_event_visibility": s.private_event_visibility or "busy",
         "group_visible_calendar_id": s.group_visible_calendar_id,
         "default_reminder_minutes": s.default_reminder_minutes,
@@ -165,7 +186,7 @@ def update_settings(
     # For these three override colours, an explicit null is meaningful
     # ("reset to default") and must be persisted as NULL. All other fields
     # keep the previous behaviour where a null/missing value is ignored.
-    NULLABLE_OVERRIDES = {"text_color", "line_color", "bg_color", "surface_color", "group_visible_calendar_id", "default_reminder_minutes", "default_event_duration_minutes", "share_calendar_icon"}
+    NULLABLE_OVERRIDES = {"text_color", "line_color", "bg_color", "surface_color", "hover_highlight_color", "icon_inactive_color", "icon_active_color", "day_hover_color", "day_selected_color", "day_bg_color", "today_bg_color", "group_visible_calendar_id", "default_reminder_minutes", "default_event_duration_minutes", "share_calendar_icon"}
     update_data = data.model_dump(exclude_unset=True)
 
     # Merge sync-flag overrides into the stored account-wide JSON map. Only known