Add configurable surface/sidebar colour + clearer sync-icon state

- new user_settings.surface_color (nullable, device-local default, not synced):
  drives the web sidebar / top bar / surfaces; NULL derives from bg_color as
  before. Added to schema, migration, GET/PUT, NULLABLE_OVERRIDES, DEFAULT_SYNC.
- web: surface colour row in the settings table; applyTheme derives the whole
  surface family from it
- web: per-row sync icon now has real styling — ON shows the primary-tinted
  glyph on a pill, OFF shows a slashed, muted glyph (was previously unstyled,
  so synced/not-synced looked identical)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

frontend/sw.js

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@
 // the entry HTML / version files). New releases take effect on the next
 // reload, no manual SW unregister required.
 
-const CACHE_VERSION  = 'calendarr-v27';
+const CACHE_VERSION  = 'calendarr-v28';
 const OFFLINE_SHELL  = ['/', '/index.html'];
 
 self.addEventListener('install', event => {