feat(sharing): hidden-profile toggle + hide non-sharing group members

- UserProfile decodes directory_hidden; updateProfile() sends it; Settings has
  a "hide my profile" toggle (excludes you from share/group pickers).
- GroupMember decodes shares_calendar; the group filter list now only shows
  members who actually share a calendar (no phantom empty rows).
- Robust custom decoders (decodeIfPresent) for the new fields.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Calendarr iOS/Models/AppSettings.swift

@@ -223,6 +223,7 @@ struct UserProfile: Codable {
     let isAdmin: Bool
     let hasAvatar: Bool
     let totpEnabled: Bool
+    var directoryHidden: Bool = false
 
     enum CodingKeys: String, CodingKey {
         case id, username, email
@@ -230,6 +231,19 @@ struct UserProfile: Codable {
         case isAdmin = "is_admin"
         case hasAvatar = "has_avatar"
         case totpEnabled = "totp_enabled"
+        case directoryHidden = "directory_hidden"
+    }
+
+    init(from decoder: Decoder) throws {
+        let c = try decoder.container(keyedBy: CodingKeys.self)
+        id = try c.decode(Int.self, forKey: .id)
+        username = try c.decode(String.self, forKey: .username)
+        displayName = try c.decodeIfPresent(String.self, forKey: .displayName)
+        email = try c.decodeIfPresent(String.self, forKey: .email)
+        isAdmin = try c.decodeIfPresent(Bool.self, forKey: .isAdmin) ?? false
+        hasAvatar = try c.decodeIfPresent(Bool.self, forKey: .hasAvatar) ?? false
+        totpEnabled = try c.decodeIfPresent(Bool.self, forKey: .totpEnabled) ?? false
+        directoryHidden = try c.decodeIfPresent(Bool.self, forKey: .directoryHidden) ?? false
     }
 }
 
@@ -258,9 +272,20 @@ struct GroupMember: Codable, Identifiable {
     let displayName: String?
     var role: String
     var color: String?
+    var sharesCalendar: Bool = true
     enum CodingKeys: String, CodingKey {
         case id, role, color
         case displayName = "display_name"
+        case sharesCalendar = "shares_calendar"
+    }
+
+    init(from decoder: Decoder) throws {
+        let c = try decoder.container(keyedBy: CodingKeys.self)
+        id = try c.decode(Int.self, forKey: .id)
+        displayName = try c.decodeIfPresent(String.self, forKey: .displayName)
+        role = try c.decodeIfPresent(String.self, forKey: .role) ?? "member"
+        color = try c.decodeIfPresent(String.self, forKey: .color)
+        sharesCalendar = try c.decodeIfPresent(Bool.self, forKey: .sharesCalendar) ?? true
     }
 }
 

Calendarr iOS/Models/Localization.swift

@@ -132,6 +132,8 @@ private let strings: [String: [String: String]] = [
         "settings.privacy": "Privatsphäre",
         "settings.private_visibility": "Private Termine für Gruppen",
         "settings.private_visibility.desc": "Wie private Termine für andere Gruppenmitglieder erscheinen",
+        "settings.directory_hidden": "Profil verbergen",
+        "settings.directory_hidden.desc": "Nicht in Teilen-/Gruppen-Auswahl anzeigen. In der Admin-Benutzerverwaltung bleibst du sichtbar.",
         "settings.private.busy": "Als „Beschäftigt“",
         "settings.private.hidden": "Ausblenden",
         "settings.calendars": "Geteilter Kalender",
@@ -461,6 +463,8 @@ private let strings: [String: [String: String]] = [
         "settings.privacy": "Privacy",
         "settings.private_visibility": "Private events for groups",
         "settings.private_visibility.desc": "How your private events appear to other group members",
+        "settings.directory_hidden": "Hide my profile",
+        "settings.directory_hidden.desc": "Don't show me in share/group pickers. You stay visible in the admin user management.",
         "settings.private.busy": "Show as \"Busy\"",
         "settings.private.hidden": "Hide",
         "settings.calendars": "Shared calendar",